I rarely ever post things like this…

But I felt this needed to be heard. This is an anonymous comment left on the CNN petition demanding they apologize for sympathizing with the Steubenville rapists

“I was raped by four men in one evening. I got drunk and tried to say no. What did my predators do? They told me to drink more. They shoved a bottle in my face and told me to keep drinking. Drink till I was drunk enough to fuck them. I blacked out. They urinated on me. They assaulted me. They shoved foreign objects in my body, anally and vaginally. They took videos. I was just 16 years old. The video was sent around my entire school, and I was bullied every single day of my senior year of high school. I lost all of my friends. I was physically and verbally abused by peers and people I once called friends. Someone tried to set me on fire in the hallway during passing period. Nobody sympathized with me. Nobody cared about the fact that because of these events, I was trying to kill myself every single day. I was cutting myself, making myself puke, showering upwards of fifteen times a day because I felt filthy. I was scratching and peeling the skin off of my body because I was dirty. I looked at myself like I deserved what I got. The world saw me as dirty, so I began to see myself that way, too. My rapists were praised by my peers for their deed. I never had a voice. When I first learned about the Steubenville incident going to trial, I was overjoyed. Because Jane Doe’s story was my story, and if anyone deserved justice, it was her. She would get the justice I never got. She would change the tide of the rape culture movement. Despite the horrific events that occurred, I knew that the justice served would help ease her pain. But she didn’t get justice, and now she has to witness this news coverage, favoring and sympathizing with her attackers. Pain is not an accurate word to describe what she is feeling right now. Pain is the simplest term you could use. As a rape victim and an aspiring journalist, I am disgusted with the way this case was reported on. Jane Doe’s rapists deserve their suffering in prison. They deserve more. They do not deserve to be sympathized with. They made their stupid decision, and they deserve whatever consequences come their way. If you don’t want to be labeled as a rapist, don’t fucking rape.”

This my dear friends, is how the media encourages rape culture.

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4 thoughts on “I rarely ever post things like this…

  1. WOW. What a terrible hell for anyone to live through. At least in Ohio juvenile court proceedings are open record. There are many states where it is buried and hidden and nobody ever knows what blah blah did and maybe they should steer clear of that person. Abuse thrives in secrecy and the country is in denial.

    • I’m glad to hear that, at least one state has got it right. I read that and it angers me so much at how the rape culture is so positive. I mean it’s got such a distorted view. There are girl saying they were raped to get back at a man which just makes it harder for real victims to get convictions and then the victims have to live with knowing that a lot of the world sympathises with them and the fear they’ll come back!

  2. There are actually only 13 states that work diligently to cover up incest and abuse. This is a topic that I should really stay away from as I have way too emotion about it and absolutely no filter.

    • That’s an awful and such a shockingly high number and yes, sorry I should have put a trigger warning especially on this post even though there is a permanent trigger warning on this blog 😛 but you are brave and strong.

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